Earlier this week I had a booty call from Alex and we fucked each others brains out – it had been 3 weeks since we had caught up in a fashion where we could get down to our speedos. It has been about 18 months since Alex’s first ever gay experience (which you guys have enjoyed reading I hope) and now we both have a great chemistry in the bedroom.
This lead to one of the members asking me the other day if I’d ever consider being in an ‘official relationship’ with Alex and my first reaction was ‘no’ because I’m not sure if I’ll ever be ‘out’ and I’m pretty sure Alex is even further from being ‘out’ than I am.
But, saying that, although we haven’t been ‘exclusive’, we have been primary sexual partners for 18 months now and particularly since Alex’s girlfriend broke up with him.
In my perfect world I think I’d love a girlfriend who either let me play with Alex or joined in and played with Alex, I’m not sure I’d ever want to cheat on someone if we were in a serious relationship and the few times during my life when I have been in a serious relationship, cheating has never been something I’d consider…. it is just more fun if everyone joins in.
I’d be interested to hear what you guys think…..
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You’ve been in rather serious longish-term relationships with guys before though, right? I seem to remember a certain figure named Will from several years back, for example, that you rather liked a lot, if I recall correctly…
But, what you describe would be nearly ideal for me as well: I’d like to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, all of whom knew about each other and at least enjoyed each other’s company, if not enjoying each other in various other ways as well (!?!), and certainly all knew about one another and were okay with everyone having other partners.
Dr. Phil,
You guys getting any snow up there in the Pacific North West?
I’ve had a few longer term fuck buddies over the years but normally I’ve been moving around so never in one place for a year. There have been some great fuck buddies though.
I have dated some girls too but for about the same length of time and breaking up for the same reasons.
Like you said, I like the boyfriend + girlfriend combo.
Dave
No snow yet where I live, Dave–thank all the gods!
But, who knows? If you take a trip here in a few months, and want to check out some of the slopes here for snowboarding, perhaps you can Kip can come over for some tea. 😉
Think it depends.
If you’re someone that threesomes typically works out for, and that’s not everyone, then maybe the girlfriend+boyfriend would work.
If you’re not, then it’ll probably end in tears – whether literally or metaphorically.
If you get to the stage where you’re thinking of it seriously with Alex, it’d be more important to get his view though. Sex with him sounds superhot, so who wouldn’t want to be in a serious relationship with him?? Similar interests, similar sex drive, similar fetishes. Sounds like a match made in heaven to me!
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