My mate Brenton Parry posted this pic on his blog the other day and I thought it was a bit of a laugh so thought I’d share it with you guys.

Maybe I should have this as part of the employment contract for my guys….. “Attention webmasters, this is a speedo friendly company.  Any webmasters caught wearing dork shorts will be terminated.”  Would you still work for me?

I mentioned last week that I was planning a naughty weekend.  Turns out, it was a very very naughty weekend indeed.

The weekend was organized by a gay friend of mine in Sydney and a bunch of his friends.  One of the guys has a vacation home down at Bateman’s Bay which is south of Sydney on the coast.  I had never been down there and I was excited to check it out.

The house was beautiful and the coastline was beautiful as well.  There was a pool but it was a bit too cold so we didn’t spend much time in it, although I wore speedos the whole time of course.

I drove down to Sydney about lunch time on Friday, had lunch in the city with my gay mate ‘S’.  Then we drove south to Bateman’s Bay and the other guys joined us after work.  I have known ‘S’ for years and we have never actually done anything naughty together.  A few times we might have, but he had a boyfriend.  I had a feeling that would change this weekend since ‘S’ was single.

There were 6 of us there for the weekend and ‘S’ and I were sharing a room.  The guys who owned the house were a long time couple but the other two guys were dating but only started recently.  Both nights ‘S’ and the new couple and I played.

Lets just say there was a lot of anal sex……

If I get time later today, and if you guys want me to, I’ll sit down and write about it in detail.

What do you guys think about the new header image?  It is a great photo, the cock, the cock ring, the speedo tan and those tiny white speedos.

Just wondering though if I should make it a little more PG rated?  It is very much ‘in your face’!!!

Would love to hear what you guys think.

Do you guys remember the Hawaii Speedo Student?  I wonder what happened to him?

There is a page dedicated to him on my site SwimmerBoyz.com with his full length profession movie “Speedo Boys” as well as all of the amateur photos and movies he made.

Why I’m posting about this is because last night I was going through some old content and was looking at some of the photos I have of him, darn he has a beautiful cock!!!

Sorry for missing a few days of posting, just been busy here and there is a long weekend coming up here in the US which I had forgotten about so I’ll have a nice quiet weekend in front of the laptop.

I do have to tell you guys about to today though. The weather here has been super warm and gorgeous and Kip and I have been riding up high and it doesn’t feel like February at all.  A few years ago I gave Kip a snowmobile as a bonus/rent and today we took it out.  What a day!!!

That made the day pretty awesome…. but Kip has told me that he has some activities tonight for me which he is looking forward to.

Sounds interesting and he didn’t let me fuck him this morning so I’m pretty sure it has something to do with sex.

As I write this post Kip has put a chair in the middle of his living room and some rope……

I’ll tell you guys what happens tomorrow.

Most of the time Kip and I live in ‘str8’ places.  Here on the Northern NSW Coast there aren’t many out gay guys and all of my local mates are str8 (that might even include Alex – hehe).

Kip has the same thing in Colorado where he is surrounded by str8 guys and he is more ‘out’ than I am but he is still discrete about it to new people he meets up in the mountains.

Our few days in Sydney were definitely not like normal.

We got out ‘gay’ on.

We stayed at a really nice hotel near Hyde Park and I have a gay friend who lives overlooking the park as well.  He really looked after us and we had a blast – I don’t think we met a str8 person in 3 days.

Gay bars, lots of gay guys and lots and lots of gay sex.

Kip had an absolute blast.

Saying that though, both of us were kind of over it after 3 days.  The gay ‘scene’ was fun but I don’t think it is something I want to be a part of 365 days a year.  At times it was like we were hanging around a bunch of girls.  Perhaps it is because Kip and I are both kind of bloke’y blokes.  We love being out doors, don’t mind getting dirty, neither of us spend enough time doing our hair.

It was really, really interesting, we had a blast and thanks to all the guys for all the fun.

Thanks for your comments and emails on yesterdays post.  If I get 3 comments here, you bet I’m getting 5 times that many emails – I prefer the comments and I get to reply to the comments more than emails but I appreciate them both.

I only touched on it yesterday about depression but it seems to have opened a can of worms.

Is the gay community more vulnerable to depression?

Despite the evolution in social acceptance, does ‘coming out’ still trouble a lot of us?

I’m not out.  My circle of friends here in Aussie think I’m 100% str8.  I am completely comfortable with my current situation, you guys know I like girls as well as guys.  You know I’ve actually been given a hard time over the years BECAUSE I like girls from my gay friends.  If I was 100% out to everyone, I would feel that it would restrict my str8 side.

It is easier for me staying in the closet and I’m fine with that – at this point in my life, I don’t want to identify/explain my sexuality.

Perhaps I’m taking the easy option.  It must be terrifying for guys who are gay to come out.  I’m sure friendships are lost/broken by coming out which is horrible but a fact of life unfortunately.

Does this whole, explaining ones sexuality bring a bigger risk of depression, anxiety to our community?

I’d love to hear your thoughts guys – I’m off to the pool.  Alex can’t make it today, I was going to skip it but I was wearing my black arena speedos and I saw this pic and I want his body which was enough motivation for me to head to the pool.