It is nice to have a real cock in the house to ride whenever I want.

You guys might remember that I bought a butt plug set a little while back.  Well, I will admit, I have been using them pretty extensively when jerking off.  Like pretty 90% of the time.

It did get me wondering though, and I wanted to ask you guys about this…..

Are you afraid that your masturbation techniques and tools can ruin/diminish your real sex life?

For example, with all the anal stimulation I’ve been getting with these butt plugs, I’m pretty sure I won’t cum as quick from a blowjob without someone playing with my arse.

I’m sure it is easy to fix, just give it a day or two break and I’ll be sooooo horny it won’t matter.

It might sound like I get laid a reasonable amount but I think that is because I share it with you guys, I still jerk off over 95% of the time.

What do you guys think?

Today I was thinking about my gay history and about my first couple of gay experiences.

I’ve written about my first experience on here before, which I was some pretty sad blowjobs sitting in a chair with the lights off.  After that I had some random hookups which involved an improving blowjob technique and some handjobs but it wasn’t until my 3rd experience before I actually kissed a guy and another couple of experiences after that before I let a guy fuck me.

Thinking back I cringe at my lack of experience and even how selfish a lover I was.

What I needed was a lover to have taken me under his wing and teach me all about the birds and the bees.

I’d love to hear what you guys experienced in the early days of your sex life.