I was just chatting to an old fuck buddy of mine on Skype, she lives in Chicago now.  I suppose we kind of dated for 3 months or so and she was really cool, a keeper.

We were just catching up so nothing naughty but it did get me thinking…..

Often when I’m seeing a girl I love to raise the question “What is the naughtiest thing you’ve ever done?”  Her response was pretty take, I think it was having sex on the beach (I lost my str8 virginity on the beach).

My follow up question is “What is the naughtiest thing you’d like to do?”  I remember this chick blushing but having an answer ready, she didn’t have to think about it. Her naughtiest fantasy was to have sex with two guys at once.  She said that everyone is all about the two girl threesome but she isn’t into girls at all and the idea of two guys really turned her on.

I told her about some of my two guy threesome experiences and OMG she was so turned on we fucked like rabbits.

I started blogging back in 2005.  It all started it because I had my first threesome and it was so amazing I wanted to share it with someone but probably not in a group email to my friends.

At the time I employed a graphic designer working for me and she had a blog and I asked her about it and set up this blog.

Back to my threesome, I’ve been a huge fan of threesomes ever since my first which you can read about here.

Today I came across a survey/study that an online dating site did on threesomes, I always think you have to take these survey’s with a pinch of salt but it still makes for fun reading.

Here are some interesting points that I took away from it:

• 19% of people have had a threesome, that is 1 in 5 about what I would expect it to be.
• 63% of gay males have had a threesome.  Again I think that sounds about right, I’ve had 3 times as many threesomes with just guys.
• 22% of straight guys have had a threesome where only 11% of straight women have had a threesome.  This is definitely interesting but I’m not really sure what to make of it.

I wonder if these stats are increasing, it might be the people I hang out with but I feel threesomes and casual bisexual activity is far more accepted than when I had my first threesome 10 years ago.

Would love to hear your thoughts guys.

Hey guys,

The last couple of weeks have been super hectic.  We finally got some snow – about 2 feet in the last week, which means that Kip and I have been out and getting our share of the pow pow.  Work has been busy and members of SwimmerBoyz.com will testify to some great new features over there – you should check out the free downloads page.

And on the sex front – I have never had this much variety in my sex life.  Last weekend I had a threesome with a couple in Denver, on Wednesday night I had a threesome with Kip and a guy on vacation from North Carolina and last night I picked up a cute brunette chick from Texas (but lives in Denver).

Turns out, this chick loves speedos!!!

Who would have guessed it right?  We were in the shower and I was about to take my boardies and black speedo solars off and she noticed my speedos.  She told me to keep them on.  It was super hot and she told me she hoped I’d wear speedos all the time.

Goes to show that some girls do like speedos.  I wrote more about this on my bisexual blog – www.BisexualDave.com if you are interested.

The speedos I was wearing are these black speedo solars – mine even have the ‘speedo brand’ and logo in blue just like these ones.

Tonight I cooked up a roast pork tenderloin with roasted sweet potatoes, roast vegies and lots of gravy.  Kip had his sister over and it was just the three of us.  Kip’s sister is awesome and I’ve known here for years and she knows about Kip and I and how we are both bisexual.  She is a sport and last time I was in town we had a speedo party and her boyfriend wasn’t keen at all but she made him wear a pair of my speedos which was awesome.

Somehow during dinner the topic of threesomes came up.  Kip’s sister has never had a threesome but thinks it would be hot.

You guys know how much I love threesomes, I love foursomes even more – hehehe.

Anyway, it got me thinking, do str8 guys or gay/bi guys have more threesomes?  I’m going to do with gay/bi guys having more threesomes because I ‘think’ (I might well be wrong) that we are more open minded sexually than str8 guys.

Now comes the kicker question: do girls have more threesomes?  That I have no idea about but I’m going to go with no.  I’ve known some girls who love threesomes as much as I do but I’ve also found the opposite.

I’d love to hear your throughs guys (and any girls who read this blog).