Too complex

I have far too much to blog about:

  • The Lance Armstrong interview has been something I’ve been focusing on the last couple of days.
  • There is a rather special lady that I’ve met – although I’ve done nothing more than give her a high five.
  • At the same time, I’ve been fucking my brains out with a married man, and Kip, and the two of them together.
  • I have a shit tonne of work to catch up on and I have some old snowboarding buddies from Aussie arriving on Monday.

I have a draft of my Armstrong post but I’m going to watch the interview (both parts) again and let Kip edit my thoughts – I don’t normally do that – you guys normally get my thoughs pretty raw.

The doris who has me a little smitten….  I pulled off one of the best 1st dates ever.  Sorry fellas I’m not telling you about that – hahahahaha (I don’t want you guys copying it).

This Doris described me as ‘charming’…..  whooohoooo!!!!  I don’t know about you but I think that is a good thing, what would you guys read into that?  Any decent advice, leave a comment, leave your email and I’ll give you a trial membership to – I know there are a lot of str8 and married guys who read this blog and I’m sure I could do with some advice from you guys.

Have a good weekend guys!!!!

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8 comments on “Too complex
  1. Michael_nm says:

    As if you need advice! It’s more like us married guys are living out their fantasies through you as it is.
    Charming huh! So you either got beyond the defences or she thinks you’re a babe and she likes how she was treated. Hmm either way that does sound good!
    All good.

  2. Handy says:

    Just be yourself and you will be fine.

  3. Michael_nm says:

    Regarding the Armstrong interview. Maybe you have a different perspective than we do here in Australia. We don’t need to be patriotic about this at all.
    To me it was a meticulously planned media and staged event. Armstrong and his team looked at everything including timing (so the statute of limitations ran out). They planned exactly the course they wanted. Genuine remorse no! Does he deserve sympathy? Absolutely not. Ask the 4th place getter who deserved a podium finish what he thinks. It’s one thing to take money but another to shatter dreams illegally.

  4. Austin says:

    I dont think I am an expert in relationships since I am friend-zoned most of the times. However, I believe that is a good thing. It sounds like she was favorably surprised by you and after the date she considers you a better catch that at the beginning. You must share those first date tips with the rest of us hahaha I guess something you could do is to think on any small detail that she mentioned during the date or when you first met her. And then try to act upon that knowledge. The idea would be to demonstrate that you put attention even to the tiniest details of what she says. I hope this is useful somehow. Btw, I am looking forward to hear your opinion about the Lance Armstrong interview, that is quite a case

  5. Dave Evans says:

    Michael – I completely agree with you mate.

    I didn’t see any genuine remorse and there is obviously a plan to this publicity stunt.


  6. skuz69 says:

    Dave….been married for a long time, and I still can’t figure out what the hell she’s thinking. I’m closeted bi and always thought that gay guys have a better chance of trying to figure out what their partner is thinking. At least they think the same.

  7. Corey says:

    Dave, It all depends on the way she said it. If she said it in the “Awwww, that’s cute” voice like the one reserved for children, then I would say not good. If she said it in the “semi-flirtatious” voice like she’s being shy then I would say you’ve got a good shot with her. Just my two cents. Hope it helps 😉

  8. Michael_nm says:

    The first tangible chink in Lance Armstrongs interview.
    “US Anti-Doping Agency (USADA) chief Travis Tygart says Lance Armstrong lied – his claim that he raced clean in his comeback in 2009 and 2010.”
    The reason – simply he has to because the stature of limitations has not run out on this part! He had to lie or he would be prosecuted! What a joke!

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