I haven’t posted about Will a whole lote lately.
To be honest I just haven’t seen him much at all. He had a girlfriend that he was getting pretty serious with and I suppose it isn’t the first time that someone has gone awol after a new flame in their life. I got to meet his girlfriend once and I didn’t think too much of her but I didn’t want to sound like a lover scorned so I put on a brave face and kept my thoughts to myself.
Well, they broke up last weekend and I think Will is a little beat up about it so I invited him to come up the coast for a weekend out of the city.
I think we might head out to some wineries and if I can find a good deal maybe we’ll even have a night out there somewhere (anyone got a recommendation?).
Will and I go back a long way and he is one of the few non-work people I have been able to share the speedo lawsuit thingy with. He is one of the very few guys that I could ever see myself being in a ‘grown up’ relationship with. I can’t remember the last time I got to cuddle with someone I really cared about.
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Dave – for f-cks sake deal with this closet bullshit. It’s getting tedious.
“He is one of the very few guys that I could ever see myself being in a ‘grown up’ relationship with”
I’m not saying there can never be any pussy but does this say your heart prefers men ?
BearMatt,
I think it says the opposite – my heart in a relationship prefers women…. with the exception of Will.
I was reading on a blog the other day someone saying that being bi gets the most discrimination these days. The gay haters still hate bi’s and the gays don’t think we are gay enough to be part of their gang.
If you are out and comfortable with it – congratulations. I’ve got a feeling I’m not the first or the last to have to come to terms with my sexuality.
Dave
As a bi male I run into the same sh*t Dave! Gay guys think Bi men just haven’t met the right guy yet and are closeted. Women often run at the thought of a guy who likes cock too. Finding someone who accepts a bi man as he is isn’t that easy to do. I’m lucky that I’ve found an amazing woman who accepts me how I am but she definitely wasn’t the first person I dated!
It is just as harmful being a closeted bi guy in a relationship with either a man or a woman as it is for a woman to be with a closeted man. IMO honesty about your desires, fantasies and sexual needs is important regardless of your sexual persuasion.
HungSpeedoBoi,
Thanks for your comment mate.
I agree with so much of what you said there.
I have been lucky enough that I’ve met some women who have loved the fact that I enjoy cock. I’ve met a few bi guys who have enjoyed my sexual openness as well.
It is a shame that in some gay guys eyes – us bisexual guys just haven’t cut the mustard yet.
Dave
Dave,
Have a great time with Will. You should share with him that he is someone you really care about. He could probably use the support. He probably read it in your blog too.
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