Mike made it over here last night which was great. I cooked up a roast lamb with roast sweet potatoes with a Central Otago Pinot and Magnum icecreams for dessert.
Well I should start at the beginning – we both fucked each others brains out as soon as he arrived, then we had a nice long shower together, and then I started cooking dinner.
It was nice to sit around the dinner table – it felt very grown up.
The nicest thing though was waking up this morning with someone in my arms. Someone to help me with my morning wood of course and then a lazy pancake breakfast before Mike had to head back to Wanaka.
I could get used to this…..
Could I ever give up my ‘debaucherous’ lifestyle though and settle down? I’m not saying I want to settle down with Mike, although I could settle down with Will although that will never happen.
I know a few gay guys who are a bit older than me who are over their ‘fuck anything that moves’ stage of their life but they have struggled to find someone to share their life with. I’m not sure I’m quite there yet but I could see that need growing in me in a few years time.
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I’ve been with the same guy for 6 years since I was a Junior in high school, and I must say that it’s been nothing short of amazing. Of course there are hard times that we get through together, but the stability is something I would never give up. Always having someone is priceless.
yes being successfully partnered in life is one of life simple pleasures. not the end all to be all.. and not certainly for everyone. but if you like it you like it.
my first thought though dave, was… is Dave coming out?!?! i presume you were talking about settling down with a guy? in a gay relantionship?
No relationship on the horizon, Mike spends the northern winter in Europe and I’m probably going to go back to Sydney for summer.
I’ve just never thought of being in a long term, open gay relationship until recently.
Dave
However you end up, Dave, I would suggest never compromising. If you’re as bisexual as I think you are, then don’t ever cut one side out of the realm of possibility forever.
I suppose the ideal, then, would be to get together with a bi guy, and have options within your relationship; and/or a bi girl with the same flexibility.
The photos above are adorable, by the way, and not because the guys are adorable (though they are). I’d love for it to work out one day that I can have a long-term boyfriend/partner, but it’s looking less and less likely as time goes on. After these awkward 30s, if I can get a decent and well-paying job, perhaps I can be a daddy for some young cute guy that wants to go to college for free…who knows?
Dr. Phil,
Good point – I’d start to miss shagging girls after a while.
You’d be a great Daddy Dr. Phil!!!
Dave
Dave, I applaud you for being so honest and open about your sexuality. I was a very confused and scared twenty-something, and did not come out until I was 29. After a few years trying to fuck around (while still dealing with Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell), I met my soul-mate. We had a commitment ceremony a year after we met, and then got married in CA when it was legal. We’ve been through a lot together these past 16 years and wouldn’t trade it. Having a hotty like you as a threesome wouldn’t be bad though.
I wish you all the best that life has to offer!
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