Today I was thinking about my gay history and about my first couple of gay experiences.

I’ve written about my first experience on here before, which I was some pretty sad blowjobs sitting in a chair with the lights off.  After that I had some random hookups which involved an improving blowjob technique and some handjobs but it wasn’t until my 3rd experience before I actually kissed a guy and another couple of experiences after that before I let a guy fuck me.

Thinking back I cringe at my lack of experience and even how selfish a lover I was.

What I needed was a lover to have taken me under his wing and teach me all about the birds and the bees.

I’d love to hear what you guys experienced in the early days of your sex life.

Tim aka Hawaii Speedo Student is an online buddy of mine and I’ve been helping him setup his blog on one of my servers (Brenton from Aussielicious has his blog on my server as well).

Now that I am back in my own bed on the Central New South Wales coast I’m settling into a routine and doing some work for a change.  Top of the list was to finish off Tim’s blog and it is now ready at www.HawaiiSpeedoStudent.com

There is a bit of work to do yet but I think it is looking good.

As it happens Tim has been up to his usual habits….

You guys know I’m a fan of the ‘fuck buddy’ and ‘ex-sex’ concepts so when I managed to get in touch with Adam I was super excited.

Adam and I were fuck buddies back when I was in New Zealand in 2005!!!!  He is a little older than me but still just as cute.  I had forgotten that I had written about the first time we met until Adam sent me the link from a May 2005 post.  Here is what we got up to that first time…..

This afternoon at 3pm I drove over to Adams. I wore my Aussie Bum Portseas (there is a link on the left here for posts with pics – click on it to see what the portsea is).

I had a couple of rums here before hand… for confidence as well as for not exploding so early – hehehehe. I took my hip flask and a bottle ok coke-a-cola.

Man I was so nervous I was shaking hey!!!!

So I rocked up – Adam was awesome and super cute!!!! Was a little taller than I was and I suppose the same weight so he was a little slimmer. He is from England but doesn’t have that twanky English accent which I don’t like.

Adam is a dive master (scuba diving) and has spent the last 12 months getting up his hours underwater diving. And since he loves speedos – I found out that he has the most (by far) speedo tan I have ever personally seen in my life!!!!

So I rocked up – we had a few drinks on the couch and literally all of a sudden we are both sitting on the couch (as we have been for half an hour) but we are kissing!!!

I was wearing my trendy jeans and they were by now well and truly undone and Adam was playing with me through my Aussue Bum’s. As promised – Adam was wearing a black pair of Nike Speedos they are called Nike Tyr’s I think.

We spent a fair while on the couch playing, as I had expected not much foreplay, and we moved into Adam’s bedroom. Our jeans were quickly removed and so were our shirts – our speedos remained.

I do have to admit – Aussie Bums are made out of nylon so they don’t stretch and they last longer but the lycra of Adam’s Nike Tyr’s felt amazing!!!!

So the two of us are now in Adam’s room and none of his house mates are home. We are kissing and touching/rubbing, I am wearing my Aussie Bums and Adam is wearing his Nike Tyr’s. This to me is about as horny as it gets. As I was getting very very close (even though my wanking efforts over the last couple of days were quite heavy) I went down on Adam.

He was cut – like I am – and I kept his speedos on and pulled his cock out the side of his speedos and started sucking him. I do admit (due to lack of experience) that I’m not the worlds greatest blow jobber but it was only a couple of minutes of me sucking Adams cock and some nice ball rubbing and he was cumming in my mouth. I don’t like tasting cum all that much but being a ‘first date’ I took it like a man and didn’t bat an eye lid.

After I was done swalling Adam’s load he started straight down on me. I was trying to hold out as long as I could and (as he wasn’t that experienced at head – although probably much more than myself) I asked him if he’d like to fuck my arse.

I didn’t have to ask Adam twice.

He pulled out a frangger and with a tonne of moisturiser began to play with my arse hole as I layed on my back. Man Adam had a nice chest – not once ounce of fat hey – his stomach just blended right into the top of his speedos which he still had on. It took Adam a couple of minutes to get full hard and all the while his dick was playing with my smooth asshole.

Once Adam was hard (and I mean rock hard) I told him to put just his head in my arse (I’m only new at this so couldn’t take it all). He did as I said and as I was on my back and Adam was on his knees he was stroking my cock which he had liberally lubricated with moisteriser (I’m sure that isn’t how you spell it).

With just the head of Adam’s cock in my arse (in a condom of course) I came very very quickly!!!! When I was done I moved around and stroked Adam until he came a second time.

After which we kinda just layed on the bed for a while. After about half an hour we heard one of Adam’s house mates come in so I decided to get my styff together and get outta there.

It was awesome, Adam was bloody hot and we promised to see each other again. Adam is going to Stewat Island tomorrow and he did ask me to go (to do with the local mt. biking club).

As I am not fit enuf just yet (although I will be I promise) and since I have no money coming in for the next couple of weeks I had to declide.

I think Adam is the hottest gay internet date I have ever had. Totally kewl – no pressure – awesome in bed and he lives in the same town as I do. We both admitted to loving threesomes and we promised each other that if we had the chance for a threesome that the opposite would be invited.

This afternoon we got up to a little more fun but I’ll have to compose myself and sit down to write it.  Perhaps in transit over the next couple of days on my way home I’ll get a chance.

Last nights dinner in the city was great – was a little wierd for Will as it looked like 2 gay couples having dinner.

I gave the guys the heads up that Will is very much in the closet and they were really great about it.

After dinner we hit a couple of Sydney Clubs and the last stop on the tour (after lots of alcohol) was a gay club.  I hadn’t been there before and neither had Will.  In the wee hours of the morning I was able to convince Will to kiss me.  We have never kissed in public (we have kissed infront of girls and guys – but only girls and guys that we are sleeping with).

I thought it was really hot and today speaking with Will about it he admitted that it was hot.  I considered trying to fuck him in the bathroom but we ended up going home and having sloppy drunk sex.

It is a warm day here and the complex that I live in has a swimming pool (although I don’t really use it since I’m close enuf to the ocean).

There is no privacy at my pool either which is a real shame – I think there is enuf lighting that even a late night shag in the pool would be out of the question.

Now when I make a million dollars and build my own house I will definitely have a very private swimming pool, hottub and sauna and my entire house will be in a constant state of ‘clothing optional’.  And hopefully there will be some scenes like this is my swimming pool…..

Last Tuesday there were some minor elections in the US – I think that the three main battles don’t really give any indication on the Obama Presidency. I’m not an Obama fan so I wish I could take some more from the results but this isn’t Fox News – although I love Fox News expecially Meghan Kelly…. she is a smarter/prettier version of Bill O’Reily (I should email him that and see if he sends me a signed copy of “Bold Fresh” – hahaha).

One of the other things that was voted on was in the state of Maine to repeal a decision that gay marriage is legal.  The result was that the decision was repealed.  This happened in California in the 2008 election as well.

I did some reading and gay marriage has been put to a vote 31 times and all 31 times it was voted down…..

I’m personally for gay marriage – I don’t think me, or anyone else, has the right to tell anyone they can’t get married.

I once heard a lesbian artist from New Zealand speaking about gay marriage and I can’t quote her verbatim but she said “Marriage is what str8 people do – I’m a lesbian, I don’t want to get married.”  It put a different slant on things and I thought her view was a breath of fresh air.

Perhaps some people aren’t ready to allow gay people to get married and that has been shown 31 times now.  Instead of pushing ‘marriage’ down peoples throat I would prefer to see a concentrated effort of making sure that gay couple have the same ‘legal rights’ that str8 couples have.

I knew exactly what I wanted to say in this post and it has ended up a rambling shambles.  I don’t post many political posts here but it is fun every, now and then.