This is a question that has come up in the company of my gay mates, but not something I’ve really discussed with chicks…. who gives better head?
One way to answer is to argue that guys have a cock so therefore understand what feels good….. I’m not sure you can argue against that but I have had some just as amazing blowjobs from chicks.
A blowjob that I often jerk off thinking about was me wearing a pair of red lycra speedos and an old fuck buddy was staying with me for a few days. She was in the shower and when she came out I was sitting on the couch, wearing nothing but my red speedo with my hard on trying to escape the red lycra. She didn’t need an invitation, she got on her knees and went to town on my cock. It was amazing!!!
So, my theory (which is only my theory) is a good blowjob has more to do with enthusiasm than it does sex. Technique is important, but that can be taught. Enthusiasm cannot be taught. Leave me a comment with your thoughts.
My blog post about jockstraps a few days ago started up a bit of a conversation in the comments section (you guys have submitted 6,439 comments in total and I’ve read every single one). The topic came up about cumming while being fucked and I’m definitely guilty of that.
I also find that when someone is blowing me (guy or girl) that I can be brought to climax much quicker while being fingered.
The best blowjob I’ve ever had was an old girlfriend, I think we dated for like 6 months back in Australia, and her technique was fantastic. One hand playing with my arse and her other hand and mouth alternating working on my cock and balls. She wasn’t lacking in enthusiasm either which definitely helped. Darn I’m getting hard just thinking about it.
And when it comes to being fucked, if there is some foreplay and I’m rock hard, and haven’t already cum that day, Kip fucking me will make me cum even without touching my cock. Of course an old fashioned reach around will do it even quicker.
Love to hear your thoughts guys.
After a quiet day yesterday I was lying on the couch watching a movie (Hall Pass) when I got a txt message from the Bikram of Blowjobs (an old girlfriend of mine who has recently moved back into the area). I caught up with her nearly a month ago now when she first moved to town but I haven’t seen her since.
Turns out she was having dinner nearby and wanted to call in a ‘Booty Call’. Good thing I hadn’t jacked off all day and I was definitely keen.
She knows about this blog and what I do and I told her that I had called her the Bikram of Blowjobs which she thought was funny. But she did live up to her name. Darn this girl can suck cock. She uses both hands and just keeps sucking away.
She found my handcuffs and handcuffed me to the bed before working her magic on my cock. Then we did the same thing the next morning – not a bad way to start a Wednesday morning.
What makes a great blowjob for you?
