It has been maybe two years since I created the members area on this blog and I think it has been a success.

The idea behind making a members area was so that I could share more.  More pics of me, more of my experiences and more of my thoughts.  I don’t think I ever really posted any of my speedo selfies before having the members area.

As I’m not out to most of my friends, I like to keep a little bit of privacy and while membership is only $5, I feel it gives me a little bit of peace of mind keeping some things behind that membership wall.

It is a little bit of a pain having to always write “Sorry guys, the rest of this is members only” and I can see one day making the blog just members only.  There are about 1,200 members and I’d love to be able to focus just on sharing stuff with those guys.  Before that I need to make some of the payment stuff easier. PayPal has been a bitch and closed my account recently and I want to be able to have more ways for you guys to pay if you decide to be a member.

Since I feel like the members only stuff has worked here, I’ve decided to make my bisexual blog (BisexualDave.com) have a similar members area.  It seems that when I post about my bisexual experiences on here most readers/fans aren’t interested so I like to keep that stuff separate.

Membership here will include membership to the bisexual blog (shoot me an email if you’d like a login, please include your current username).

If you have any thoughts, ideas even advice please drop me an email or a comment here.

If you do head over to BisexualDave.com to check it out, I recently posted a video of a chick in a blue ADIDAS one piece having sex in a locker room shower.  Owww how I wish I was there, and wearing a matching blue ADIDAS speedos.  Click here to see that post/video.

Holy cow it has been 6 days, nearly 7 since I last posted.

I had to head up to Queensland last Monday for a death in the family.  Old uncle who made it to 98 which is a pretty good innings.  For some reason I got roped into helping out with some of the funeral arrangements and then I was involved in the estate, no money, I just was executor which was completely random.  So after jumping on a flight last Monday, I just walked in the door here and it is after 8pm on Saturday night.

As you can imagine I have a tonne of work to catch up on AND I’m super horny – which isn’t always a bad combination.

I thought that I might have been able to catch up with an old fuck buddy but things were just too hectic and I couldn’t get away from all the family.  So…. it is supposed to get up to 31C on Monday and I’m headed up to Birdie Beach to get fucked in the sun.  Alex said he’ll take the afternoon off to ‘help’ me out, yes his boyfriend will be joining us and anyone else who wants to come along is more than welcome.

Between now and then, I am going to be a super duper computer nerd and work my tail off.

I better get to it.  Actually before I do, I’m not out to any of my family at ALL, which is probably why I like to live a 10 hour drive from any of them.  I don’t think anyone would really care but I don’t need to deal with it so I’m not going to, I can write more about that another time.

Anyway, I thought it was hilarious when at lunch on the Queen Street Mall one day an uncle of mine (who is like 60yo) checked out this chick and said “I’d eat ice cream out of her arse, and come back for seconds with extra arse.”

Hahaha – I’ve had another friend of mine say this before and I think I mentioned it in a blog post, but it didn’t have him coming back for 2nds of arse.

Here is an arse I’d have 2nds of…. anyone know who it is?  Members get more pics of course.

I was just thinking about Alex dropping around last Friday….. I always wonder what we’d look like on film.

You guys know I’m not completely out to all of my family and friends so pics like this probably aren’t going to appear online anytime soon.  Alex is completely in the closet and not ‘out’ to anyone.

I remember growing up, my Dad telling me that the hardest thing in the world…. is keeping a secret.  He also told me not many people could do it.

There are a few people who know about my sexuality in its complete and sometimes complexity.  When it comes to business and these sites, there are even fewer people who really know about everything – I could count them on the fingers of one hand (not including the thumb).  I really value the confidence I have in these people.

You guys know I’d really love to show off some footage of Alex and I doing some naughty things in our speedos, it just isn’t happening.  Alex has given me his trust.  Alex knew all about this blog and had been a member of SwimmerBoyz.com before he told me his ‘secret’.  I hold that trust that he has given me dearly and it isn’t something I would ever break.

This has been something I’ve been aware of since I started SwimmerBoyz.com, I keep the information of members that join very close to heart   When it comes to Alex, I definitely keep his stuff close to heart so despite how many emails I get asking for pics of Alex and me fucking in speedos….. probably ain’t gunna happen.

I will admit, there are a few of my own discreet pics amongst the archives of SwimmerBoyz.com.

One half of the holidays (and the crazy season) is over, one more to go with New Years Eve.  Hopefully then things will quieten down here.

Everything for my move back to Aussie at the end of the month is pretty much lined up.  The house I’m renting is perfect, right on the beach and I’ve rented it before and the landlord is a good guy.  Kip is going to come over in April/May, hopefully for a while.  He has never been to Australia before so he is excited and I’m excited to have a speedo friend to hang out with.

The group of friends that I hang out with on the Central NSW Coast are all str8 guys, half of them are married now.  All really good guys and none of them are homophobes but I keep some of my sexual preferences close to my chest around those guys.  I know when ever I post something like this I get a bunch of guys who are out and proud tell me off but this is my choice and I’m happy with it.

A friend in town here is having a birthday today so I’m sure there will be some shenanigans tonight.  I’m up early and going to go for a swim once I finish this blog post but I might have to have an afternoon nap if I’m going to smack it up tonight.

How are you guys enjoying the holidays?