The barbie (Aussie slang for BBQ/grilling) last night went great.  Being the host I started off being well behaved and it paid off later in the night when I was still able to stand and the last one to bed.

Surprisingly enough, I am up early and about to go for a surf with some of the boys (the married ones who have kids who didn’t party late last night).

My thoughts that Buffy the Neighbour is interested in me is confirmed.  We ended up making out before she headed home (our houses share a wall so it wasn’t far).  She was pretty hammered/drunk though so I won’t read too much into it until I see her again.

I’m still not really sure how to play it if Buffy wants to ‘date’.  Like I said earlier in the week, I would love to be open about my sexuality to a girl if I dated her and I’m sure it would be a healthy thing as well as having the potential to be super super naughty.

I can hear one of the boys just pulled up – Alex is passed out on the couch (we did sneak a kiss late last night so I kissed a girl and a guy at the BBQ) and it is surf time.  Talk to you guys later.

I wonder how many of you guys have had ex-sex, sex with an ex girlfriend or boyfriend.

Over the weekend I ran into Surfer Chick.  For those of you who are new to be blog, Surfer Chick was a friend of Alex’s ex-girlfriend and we kinda dated we were kind of fuck buddies but nothing ever got too serious.  She kind of dropped out of the picture when Alex’s girlfriend found his Grindr profile and I know that Surfer Chick was kind of weirded out by my rather extensive speedo collection.

On Sunday afternoon I ran into Surfer Chick, it was OK, we never had a fight or anything and she did look pretty good.

I’m pretty sure if she offered I’d bang her.  I have banged some ex-girlfriends in the past and I personally have been a fan.  Everyone knows what everyone else likes and I’ve been able to separate the physical act to any emotions.

Anyway, I didn’t get any over the weekend so Alex is knocking off work early today and coming over for a ‘surf’ and a ‘suck’.

Did you guys enjoy my reminiscing about Alex’s first gay experience?  Since then he has embrassed the man sex for sure and although he still doesn’t enjoy bottoming as much as I do, he can take a fat cock.

When I was thinking about writing about Alex’s Breakup I went back and read some of the experiences that I had with Alex over the last 18 months and I remembered I wrote a post about Alex’s sexual bucket list.  We were just joking around but here is what was on Alex’s sexual bucket list:

• Feel a guy cum in his mouth.
• Work toward being fucked.
• Threesome with 2 guys.
• Being tied up and fucked in the arse by two guys once after the other.

That last one was pretty specific and that is the only thing that I don’t think Alex has done on that list.  He has done some other things tough including a foursome, lots of sex outdoors up at Birdie Beach

I’ll be sure to bring up the Alex’s getting fucked by several guys thing next time I see him, although he will probably read this before then so he’ll know what I’m thinking.

Back to Alex’s break up.  So Alex was on Grindr but he had never had a hookup on his own on there.  He and I have picked up guys together on Grindr, I’ve picked up guys on Grindr that he has also fucked but he has never done it on his own.  He is even more careful about his anonymity than I am so a first meeting would be even scarier for him.  But he did have a Grindr account and would occasionally surf around on it and I could also tell him about guys that I’ve seen on there.

Sorry guys, the rest of this is for ‘members only’.  There are a few too many personal details that I don’t really want super public.  Feel free to join for a whole $5 and find out what happened.

Here are some photos from the rest of the post for you to think about.

I started blogging back in 2005.  It all started it because I had my first threesome and it was so amazing I wanted to share it with someone but probably not in a group email to my friends.

At the time I employed a graphic designer working for me and she had a blog and I asked her about it and set up this blog.

Back to my threesome, I’ve been a huge fan of threesomes ever since my first which you can read about here.

Today I came across a survey/study that an online dating site did on threesomes, I always think you have to take these survey’s with a pinch of salt but it still makes for fun reading.

Here are some interesting points that I took away from it:

• 19% of people have had a threesome, that is 1 in 5 about what I would expect it to be.
• 63% of gay males have had a threesome.  Again I think that sounds about right, I’ve had 3 times as many threesomes with just guys.
• 22% of straight guys have had a threesome where only 11% of straight women have had a threesome.  This is definitely interesting but I’m not really sure what to make of it.

I wonder if these stats are increasing, it might be the people I hang out with but I feel threesomes and casual bisexual activity is far more accepted than when I had my first threesome 10 years ago.

Would love to hear your thoughts guys.

The Wikipedia definition of Bisexuality….

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of both genders (socially) or sexes (biologically). Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women and may even shift between states of finding either gender or sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.However, some bisexuals are and remain fairly static in their level of attraction throughout their adult life.

In the mid-1940s, Alfred Kinsey devised the Kinsey scale in an attempt to measure sexual orientation and activity. The 7-point scale has a rating of 0 (“exclusively heterosexual”) to 6 (“exclusively homosexual”). Bisexuals cover most of the scale’s values (1–5), which range between “predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual” (1) to “predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual” (5). In the middle of the scale (3) is “equally heterosexual and homosexual”. Although Kinsey’s methodology has come under criticism, the scale is still widely used in describing the phenomenon of bisexuality.

Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, the term bisexuality (like the terms hetero- and homosexuality) was only coined in the 19th century.

I think on that scale I’d be a 4 – how about yourself?  I’m sure I’m going to bring up this post again.

Yesterday and today I’ve been catching up on some work and remained indoors.  Very boring I know but everyone seems to be out of town.

Jaime is in Sydney, Mr. Big Cock was busy all weekend and a bunch of my mates are away as well.  As usual – when I’m sitting around the house on my own I’m wearing nothing but a speedo and you guys have seen what I have to ‘work’ on everyday – so work related erections are common place.

I think over the last 2 days I’ve jacked off maybe a dozen times!!!

Jaime txt’d me a horny little message about catching up this coming week so I will have to lay off the masturbating and save some spunk for her.  I need to have a think how I can introduce her and Mr. Big Cock to each other.

Mr. Big Cock has been with a girl – when he was 16 (he is 32 now).  Even if he doesn’t want to touch or fuck her it would be hot if we played around and she just watched.

I better get back to work – might grab some pizza for dinner.