Earlier this week I had a booty call from Alex and we fucked each others brains out – it had been 3 weeks since we had caught up in a fashion where we could get down to our speedos.  It has been about 18 months since Alex’s first ever gay experience (which you guys have enjoyed reading I hope) and now we both have a great chemistry in the bedroom.

This lead to one of the members asking me the other day if I’d ever consider being in an ‘official relationship’ with Alex and my first reaction was ‘no’ because I’m not sure if I’ll ever be ‘out’ and I’m pretty sure Alex is even further from being ‘out’ than I am.

But, saying that, although we haven’t been ‘exclusive’, we have been primary sexual partners for 18 months now and particularly since Alex’s girlfriend broke up with him.

In my perfect world I think I’d love a girlfriend who either let me play with Alex or joined in and played with Alex, I’m not sure I’d ever want to cheat on someone if we were in a serious relationship and the few times during my life when I have been in a serious relationship, cheating has never been something I’d consider…. it is just more fun if everyone joins in.

I’d be interested to hear what you guys think…..

The other day I was talking to a member and he correctly guessed that a photo I posted on here within the last 2 or 3 weeks was one of me.

For those of you who are new here, although I love sharing my speedo escapades, I am not out to most of my friends which means I am reasonably protective of my privacy.  Maybe at some point in the future I’ll come ‘out’ but until then I don’t think it is any ones business.

Over the years I’ve had some people give me a hard time for not being ‘out and proud’.

Although most of my friends and family wouldn’t care if I told them I’m bi, then I would have to explain my sexuality.  Anyone I ‘dated’, I’d have to explain that early in the relationship which could be a good thing, but I’d prefer to be able to choose if and when I told someone that stuff.

It is a shame I’m not 100% out though, I’m sure I could get laid a little more from the blog (although that still happens) and I’d love to film and photograph more of my sexual experiences.  I still do take some personal pics and occasionally I throw one online in the mix just as a personal joke.

So keep your eyes out guys……

A few of the boys came around for a drink yesterday afternoon and it was gorgeous sitting in the back yard…. I really can’t wait for summer.

Later that evening Surfer Chick came over and we had a few drinks and made it to the bedroom for a little bit of sloppy drunk sex.  It wasn’t that late and we were talking and I was pretty horny after a week of no sex.  I asked her if she had ever kissed a girl, and she said yes.

She asked if I had ever kissed a guy, I said yes and she completely freaked out!!!

I couldn’t believe it.  Just imagining her making out with a girl is a complete turn on for me but that obviously isn’t the case for her.  She is open minded, she has some gay friends but it freaked her out.  This morning we fucked but I could tell she was still weirded out.

It probably has something to do with what has been going on between Alex and his girlfriend but it is still a shame.

I think I will let her cool off and see what happens but I think that rules out her enjoying some bisexual fun with me.

Looks like I’m going to have a pretty quiet weekend so maybe this afternoon I’ll start writing about what happened to Alex and his girlfriend.  This will be something that I’ll post in the members area as I’d hate for Alex’s girlfriend to read it and put 2 and 2 together.

I started blogging back in 2005.  It all started it because I had my first threesome and it was so amazing I wanted to share it with someone but probably not in a group email to my friends.

At the time I employed a graphic designer working for me and she had a blog and I asked her about it and set up this blog.

Back to my threesome, I’ve been a huge fan of threesomes ever since my first which you can read about here.

Today I came across a survey/study that an online dating site did on threesomes, I always think you have to take these survey’s with a pinch of salt but it still makes for fun reading.

Here are some interesting points that I took away from it:

• 19% of people have had a threesome, that is 1 in 5 about what I would expect it to be.
• 63% of gay males have had a threesome.  Again I think that sounds about right, I’ve had 3 times as many threesomes with just guys.
• 22% of straight guys have had a threesome where only 11% of straight women have had a threesome.  This is definitely interesting but I’m not really sure what to make of it.

I wonder if these stats are increasing, it might be the people I hang out with but I feel threesomes and casual bisexual activity is far more accepted than when I had my first threesome 10 years ago.

Would love to hear your thoughts guys.

Thanks for your comments and emails on yesterdays post.  If I get 3 comments here, you bet I’m getting 5 times that many emails – I prefer the comments and I get to reply to the comments more than emails but I appreciate them both.

I only touched on it yesterday about depression but it seems to have opened a can of worms.

Is the gay community more vulnerable to depression?

Despite the evolution in social acceptance, does ‘coming out’ still trouble a lot of us?

I’m not out.  My circle of friends here in Aussie think I’m 100% str8.  I am completely comfortable with my current situation, you guys know I like girls as well as guys.  You know I’ve actually been given a hard time over the years BECAUSE I like girls from my gay friends.  If I was 100% out to everyone, I would feel that it would restrict my str8 side.

It is easier for me staying in the closet and I’m fine with that – at this point in my life, I don’t want to identify/explain my sexuality.

Perhaps I’m taking the easy option.  It must be terrifying for guys who are gay to come out.  I’m sure friendships are lost/broken by coming out which is horrible but a fact of life unfortunately.

Does this whole, explaining ones sexuality bring a bigger risk of depression, anxiety to our community?

I’d love to hear your thoughts guys – I’m off to the pool.  Alex can’t make it today, I was going to skip it but I was wearing my black arena speedos and I saw this pic and I want his body which was enough motivation for me to head to the pool.

Last Friday went amazing with Alex.

We had a good chat about things and things are back on track.

I know you guys are enjoying following this thing with Alex and I’m trying to share as much as possible with you guys.  Alex reads this blog so I have to be a little careful AND neither of us are ‘out’ and I’d hate to expose this new side of Alex’s sexuality.

Also, I’ve gotta share this with the members of SwimmerBoyz.com.  It is those guys who join SwimmerBoyz.com that lets me keep this blog 100% free.

If you’d like to read how Alex’s first cock was – please drop over to SwimmerBoyz.com.  You can join for $4.95 and that includes all the movies and pics as well.

Thank you guys for all your support and I think you’ll enjoy Alex’s performance.

Here is a screen shot from the members area of this story (yeah, it is pretty long and took me a while to get it all out).