Over the last month I’ve posted a bit about first times.

• Alex’s First Time
• One of the members first times
• A str8 guys first time which involved speedos

It was my first ever MMF, bisexual threesome that started this blog back in 2005 (click here to read that story).

I was thinking the other day that I haven’t ever written about my first ever gay experiences, and I say experiences because it was over a summer and things built up slowly with my best friend at the time.  My best friend, I’m going to call him Stephen (not his real name because I value other peoples privacy as much as I value my own), is otherwise 100% str8, I don’t see him too much but we keep in touch at least once a month on Skype and he has a long time girlfriend who is just lovely.  As far as I’m aware, his only gay experience was with me and I think it was more of a ‘darn we are horny and too nerdy to pick up girls’ kind of thing for him.

Stephen knows about my blog and these sites, when the Evil Speedo Corporation sued me in the High Court it made the news papers and he was the first person to call me asking “Dave, is that you on the cover of the Sydney Morning Herald?”  I doubt Stephen reads this blog though.

I’ve been wondering why I’ve never written about this and I suppose it is because it is something personal and it is something that we were both kind of fumbling around in the dark about our sexuality, what to do, how to do it, it definitely wasn’t some mind blowing sexual adventure like I’ve had with Alex over the last 12 months.

Now, with the members are of the blog, I feel like I can write about this with some degree of privacy.

Later today I’ll start writing about this, could be a long post.  It will be available to SwimmerBoyz.com and blog members.  It is $5 to join, you get all my stories a bunch of movies and first look at any new models.

I think $5 is worth it – click here to join.

The funny thing is, we tied each other up and used blindfolds because we thought it would be less gay….. sounds a lot more gay to me.

Did you guys enjoy my reminiscing about Alex’s first gay experience?  Since then he has embrassed the man sex for sure and although he still doesn’t enjoy bottoming as much as I do, he can take a fat cock.

When I was thinking about writing about Alex’s Breakup I went back and read some of the experiences that I had with Alex over the last 18 months and I remembered I wrote a post about Alex’s sexual bucket list.  We were just joking around but here is what was on Alex’s sexual bucket list:

• Feel a guy cum in his mouth.
• Work toward being fucked.
• Threesome with 2 guys.
• Being tied up and fucked in the arse by two guys once after the other.

That last one was pretty specific and that is the only thing that I don’t think Alex has done on that list.  He has done some other things tough including a foursome, lots of sex outdoors up at Birdie Beach

I’ll be sure to bring up the Alex’s getting fucked by several guys thing next time I see him, although he will probably read this before then so he’ll know what I’m thinking.

Back to Alex’s break up.  So Alex was on Grindr but he had never had a hookup on his own on there.  He and I have picked up guys together on Grindr, I’ve picked up guys on Grindr that he has also fucked but he has never done it on his own.  He is even more careful about his anonymity than I am so a first meeting would be even scarier for him.  But he did have a Grindr account and would occasionally surf around on it and I could also tell him about guys that I’ve seen on there.

Sorry guys, the rest of this is for ‘members only’.  There are a few too many personal details that I don’t really want super public.  Feel free to join for a whole $5 and find out what happened.

Here are some photos from the rest of the post for you to think about.

I got a swim today with Alex and we both were in a bit of a rush with stuff to get done this afternoon (Alex comes swimming on his lunch break from work – his office is just about in walking distance and he does wear his speedos under his suit pants).

Only problem was, when Alex got out of the pool I got an eyeful of his speedo covered arse and it looked just tastey!!!

I told him so and before we could get to the change rooms I was pretty much ‘up’ for it. Alex got on his knees and serviced my cock like the champion he is.

With that in mind, I thought I’d post some pics of guys getting out of the pool and I hope they have give your cock the same reaction Alex did to mine.

Is a girl fucking a guy with a strap on gay?

I’m pretty sure my str8 mates would say it is gay having anything put in your butt, but, saying that I’ve spoken with str8 guys about being fingered during oral sex and they like it and understand that guys have some nerve endings back there which feel really good.

What if you told a str8 guy he would be fucked with a strap on but with 2 girls, is that still too gay?

I had a chick fuck buddy years ago and during a drunken sex driven conversation one night she mentioned that she’d love to fuck a guy with a strapon and I told her that I was keen.  She fucked me with it maybe half a dozen times and it was great.  I’m not sure it is a topic that would bring up with a conservative or anti-gay/bi chick I was dating.

A little off topic from our usual speedo talk but I was writing about it over on www.BisexualDave.com and thought I’d ask you guys what you think.

Alex came around for a blowjob on Monday and he is finishing out the week with a blowjob.  Just got a text from him saying he is coming over for a ‘surf’.

It is kind of funny that since my place is the closest of any of the boys (by boys I mean the group of str8 guys that I hang out with), everyone keeps their surfboards at my place.  I have 5 surfboards sitting in a little shed at the back of the house.  And I’m the worst surfer of any of these guys by far.

When Kip was here it means that we had to be super careful because people just rock up anytime but it is part of living on the beach which I love.

Anyway, so Alex is coming over and we are skipping going for a lap swim instead so he can knock of work a little earlier.

I asked him about how often his girlfriend sucks him off and he said it is never enough….. so I suppose it is a good thing he can just drop by and drop a load.

Most of the time Kip and I live in ‘str8’ places.  Here on the Northern NSW Coast there aren’t many out gay guys and all of my local mates are str8 (that might even include Alex – hehe).

Kip has the same thing in Colorado where he is surrounded by str8 guys and he is more ‘out’ than I am but he is still discrete about it to new people he meets up in the mountains.

Our few days in Sydney were definitely not like normal.

We got out ‘gay’ on.

We stayed at a really nice hotel near Hyde Park and I have a gay friend who lives overlooking the park as well.  He really looked after us and we had a blast – I don’t think we met a str8 person in 3 days.

Gay bars, lots of gay guys and lots and lots of gay sex.

Kip had an absolute blast.

Saying that though, both of us were kind of over it after 3 days.  The gay ‘scene’ was fun but I don’t think it is something I want to be a part of 365 days a year.  At times it was like we were hanging around a bunch of girls.  Perhaps it is because Kip and I are both kind of bloke’y blokes.  We love being out doors, don’t mind getting dirty, neither of us spend enough time doing our hair.

It was really, really interesting, we had a blast and thanks to all the guys for all the fun.